I’ve always wondered how much people actually appreciate who you really are or what you do for them. To me it’s the little things that count. The things that made your day - the things that didn’t cost you money – in fact these things physically cost you next to nothing.
I like to give and enjoy seeing a smile on someone’s face – but lately – I feel rather unappreciated. It seems that most people aren’t interested in the little things any more. They seem to choose bigger and better things to do all the time and these tend to cost an arm and a leg too. I think that it’s something on the lines of a “keeping up with the Joneses” complex that’s sweeping the world.
People seem to take all the support you can possibly give and toss you to the kerb when they find someone “better”. I’ve said it before in another post – there are exceptions out there. These people tend to be loyal; they are supportive even if they are too many kilometres away for a face to face visit. They always seem to understand and tend to give as much to you as you give to them. These are the ones that you will find the connection between you will never fade over the years.
A hand-made card or meaningful gift is more important than a bigger more expensive gift. It shows that you took the time to listen when someone told you about their life. One of my favourite lines from a movie is that when you get married you have someone to witness your life – your partner is saying your life won’t go by unnoticed. To me you could say the same thing about a true friendship. Now that’s appreciation…
This brings me to the point of doing too much for people.
If you do too much for your kids they get lazy and tend to leave more for you to do. They also don’t learn from their mistakes. If you pack their school bags everyday and do similar things for them, they will never learn responsibility.
Is it the same with people you meet / family / friends? Do people become more “leech” like when you give them too much or do too much for them?
I think that a true friend will never push you to a kerb, they will never be a leech, and they never repeat something told to them in confidence… they never change…
Thank you to the rare beautiful souls out there. There are way too few of you… you inspire me…
Here’s a little something I just received from a friend. I think this BBM was timed to perfection.
Think about this for a minute.
If I happened to show up on your door step crying, would you care?
If I called and asked you to pick me up because something happened would you come?
If I had one day left to live would you be part of my last day?
If I needed a shoulder to cry on, would you give me yours?
Do you know what the relationship is between your eyes? They blink together, they cry together. They see things together, and the sleep together, BUT THEY NEVER SEE EACH OTHER….
That’s what friendship is. Life is lonely without friends.
Its world best friend week.
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